CONTROL YOUR EXPERIENCE

TO BE MATURED: CONTROL YOUR EXPERIENCE

Experience has no age-mate, class-mate, peer-group; in fact, no experience of two-person is the same. It can only be similar.

Therefore, Your Experience is yours and it belongs to you alone

Hence, before you claim to be acting negatively from experience which turns you to become an aggressive fellow, remember that others have theirs but do not allow it to overwhelm them.

Be in control of your experience, and not your experience controlling you.

If you are in control of your experience, you are matured and your behavior will be outstanding

However, if your experience controls you, it's a sign that you are not yet mature, and aggressiveness becomes your second nature.

Summarily, 

Controlling your experience is letting go of the past negative and make use of the lesson learned from it to become a better person today and the best tomorrow

If your experience controls you, it means you do not let go the past, and the past blocks you from seeing the lesson it offers, hence u become more aggressive in the society today and perhaps foolish person tomorrow

God bless you as you take control of your experience.

Cheers.

Oladeji Segun Sylvester, Crs.

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